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How to Develop Presence of Mind - 33 Strategies of War Analysis

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How to Develop Presence of Mind (use pickup as an exmaple_) Purchase my course "The Psychological Game of Attraction": https://dalexis-school.thinkific.com WORK WITH ME 1-1: https://mindfulattraction.org/inner-game-coaching/ Purchase seminars & books: https://mindfulattraction.org/new-products-1/ JOIN MY FB GROUP: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mindfulattraction20 Follow me on twitter for updates: Twitter.com/dalexispe Follow me on instagram: @dalexisp -strong minded people are forged by fire, not born. -most minds are weak, but its hidden from the boring null moments of life -our weakness is felt through avoidance and when problems arise, but that’s when we need it -Having a strong mind is all about training it. Most women are weak minded, not because of gender, but culture and past down belief systems. -will help you relax when life’s sudden problems arise Key 1: Become addicted to challenges -Fear is the most destructive emotion -Face your fears, or else they’ll consume you -Fear is like a negative bank account that you know you need to address, but you don’t. -FAce your fears. Get in the habit of facing emotionally challenging situations so that your mind can get used to it. It’s similar to stretching -Fear set -The feeling of overcoming a challenge will make you strong -The more you overcome, the more battle tested you’ll become.’ Key 2: Be self reliant -Don’t depend on other people to get things done. Learn to have confidence in yourself by overestimating yourself more than usual. -Fear makes the enemy look stronger and you weaker Key 3: When dealing with fools, treat them as children -Emotionally crazy people are fools. Don’t take them serious. See them as a child with compassion. Key 4: Unintimidated yourself: Focus on the now when things get tough -Fear, anxiety and all those emotions come from a future projection, focus your attention on the now and it’ll work (similar to not trying to think of an elephant) Key 5: Develop an instinct for making quick decisions -develop an understanding of your terrain -Get in the habit of making quick decisions -similar to pickup. Key’s key: Cultivate it during normal waking situations and not when the problem arises. -Fear makes you hesitate -Thinking fast is thinking clearly -A crowded mind can’t think right
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Mindful Attraction 2.0 (3 months ago)
Purchase my course "The Psychological Game of Attraction": https://dalexis-school.thinkific.com WORK WITH ME 1-1: https://mindfulattraction.org/inner-game-coaching/ Purchase seminars & books: https://mindfulattraction.org/new-products-1/ JOIN MY FB GROUP: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mindfulattraction20 Follow me on twitter for updates: Twitter.com/dalexispe Follow me on instagram: @dalexisp
Marlon Aviz (2 months ago)
I'm applying this for competitive sports. Thanks for the knowledge.
TJ Walker (2 months ago)
> I don't game [ _it_ (whatever the challenge at hand is)]; I game *_myself_* ." Well phrased, I think.
maroko sakura (3 months ago)
But what if you take kids ignorance seriously too xd
Cassaundra Gomez (3 months ago)
Thank you, for taking the time to make videos, that make me think and become a better individual.
Nike Nikao (5 months ago)
Thanks so much for video always great content. Can I ask what book is this reference too? Thanks
Jenny Aleksandrou (6 months ago)
you are amazing!
Lmao shame poor Le Bron!
Koraktsang Yimchunger (6 months ago)
Thanks for sharing such amazing video .. I leaned alot how to over come fear .
that sign was hilarious amid the video 😆😆
whoisshetoquestionfate (8 months ago)
I would go so far and say this is your best video** :)
Cza Sd (8 months ago)
Thank you for helping me to gradually become my ideal self.
Lyric G. (9 months ago)
I love your mind ❤️
JeetR GameR (9 months ago)
Do you know who Sodapoppin is? XD
puffchickpam1 (10 months ago)
How long does it take to develop presence of mind? Days? months? weeks? years? I just made an ass out of myself trying to flirt with a dude at work. After he looked at me like I was nuts I ran out of there like chickenshit
marlon brando (1 year ago)
Great video! Cheers
Regina Weiss (1 year ago)
Powerful
Ms Katharina (1 year ago)
I love you!
Vox Nihili (1 year ago)
This is how I imagined what you are saying... Imagine holding a small ball, the size of a golf ball. Imagine that it is a magnet for fear. Hold it in front of you and watch all the fear from your body being sucked into this ball. Feel the relief and relaxation grow as the negative emotion becomes trapped inside the ball. Look at the ball, observe it and set it away from yourself where it belongs. It is not a part of you.
Vox Nihili (1 year ago)
Fear is the most destructive emotion. It is manipulative and irrational. It corrupts the mind, justifies wrongs, causes anxiety/mistrust, and it makes you hesitant. It hides behind the "good intentions" of safety/security. It's hard to see it as separate from yourself but having an awareness of this entity can help you to see it as the actual enemy/threat. Learn to love challenge, risk, even though there is the possibility of failure. The more you overcome challenges, the stronger you become. Fear is not real; it's your imagination. A mind that is focused on the NOW is clear and relaxed. It's okay to acknowledge possible future challenges so that you can prepare but not from a state of fear. The fear will keep you focused on the challenge/problem but becoming aware of the fear will help you to focus on logical and pragmatic solutions/ preparation so that you can take action. The most important thing in life is being here right NOW/AWARE. If you learn to control/manage emotions then you can defeat the enemy. "There's nothing to fear but fear itself."
FrankieJames7 (1 year ago)
this is my favorite book, listen to it all the time
Anitra Williams (1 year ago)
Needed to hear this. Thanks for your great content. :)
sofia ray (1 year ago)
Can you make a video on how to fight fair in a marriage/relationship? Thanks in advance!
Maria Lujan (1 year ago)
you studder alot, it's alright though it's cute😂 I like how you can still prove your point when tryinh to explain, your videos are very helpful😊
Diamond Cain (1 year ago)
:D... lol.. I love your clean nails.... I must of missed it the first time I watched this video... bol
yoyo yo (1 year ago)
On point. This will help me with work
M M (1 year ago)
Really loved all the information from this video!
Montse M (1 year ago)
Good choice choosing this path, you are good at this :) Let's go!
I know that's pretty stupid but are you en Bcn right now? Because I think I've just seen you sitting in the cafe close to Marina
Pamela Bergner (1 year ago)
this is good stuff, Alex. tk u
Pamela Bergner (1 year ago)
this is good stuff, Alex. tk u
yakima sample (1 year ago)
i love you Dalexis
Chaitra C J (1 year ago)
Hey also culture n belief system gets wiped off totally when Jesus touches us n renews our mind. 😊 But... Ok. simple. U re saving me certain thoughts in a manner that I really console myself as to why one behaves...
Chaitra C J (1 year ago)
What I say is when the anointing of God comes on, u do all of this, comes spontaneous n easy. When we pray v surrender our mind n thoughts on to Jesus like focusing on breath. Nw whn we pray added interest is Holyspirit is helping us unlike yoga wher v later tk charge of our mind n giv room to manipulate as one's need.
Chaitra C J (1 year ago)
Hi Alex. I was actually saying in t last video comment "U are a blessing." ok. Feedback - U felt not gud enough. I think it's still one f t videos which had lot of points n gud. Tis dint include the aspects of how to practice in a manner like yoga or so...but It's the kind where dealing with inner status of mind is spoken. 👍 I mean yoga kind of stuff is anyway not asked for here.
Xyz Xyz (1 year ago)
Alex u r a genius...vraiment chapeau!
VIDEO EXTREM!! (1 year ago)
why are some guys needy
Stella Bella (1 year ago)
Totally nailed it. So true what you said about "when you're talking to someone and just enjoying the jokes for yourself rather than trying to make them laugh, that's when you're on fire" (or something like that). Totally get that, just fully present, in the moment, enjoying the experience for what it is. Loved the bit about seeing idiots as children too - great way to flip it in your mind and stop yourself from bitching! Made me laugh. Brilliant stuff. Thank you. X
CC Styles (1 year ago)
Youre dominican omg. I heard they are players lol, makes sense. The guy Im messing with is dominicano too.
Chaitra C J (1 year ago)
CC Styles Good name
Carolina Sanchez (1 year ago)
You are amazing
Daniela González (1 year ago)
this video is amazing, there is a guy that i like but he likes to manipulate, he likes to make him the victim when he is not, now i can stop this mental game. Thank you!
Lena (1 year ago)
You really go to the core of this shit, thank you.
Lena (1 year ago)
I still think you did a great job bringing on topics like awereness, being on the present moment, not following our projections and not avoiding feeling negative emotions, all of that is deep psychology and are the keys of everything, they are part of the path to go higher in our map of consciousness. Don't worry, you're getting better and better on each video :)
if i dont, then what's the point? lol i really felt that this video wasn't as i intended but i guess it's good enough :)
shan young (1 year ago)
Ay bruh usually ur analogies be on point BUT LEBRON JAMES WAS ABLE TO CARRY THE CITY OF CLEVELEND ON HIS BACK AND BE THE FIRST TEAM EVER TO COME BACK FROM A 1-3 DEFICIT A WIN A NBA CHAMPIONSHIP... HE FAR FROM A CHOKE ARTIST!!!
Alicia Alvarez (1 year ago)
You totally read my mind. I been holding back not to text my "friend" and wait for him to do so. But he still hasn't oh well. 😕 This video knock some sense into me. Thanks handsome😘
Carolina Sanchez (1 year ago)
I agree! These guys are either afraid of catching feelings for us or too wimpy
Alicia Alvarez (1 year ago)
M.A. 2.0 you're amazing😘
+Alicia Alvarez good lol
Kimberly Herrera (1 year ago)
you rock, guapo!
Frill Stash (7 months ago)
you are gwapa
+Kimberly Herrera :)
Sophia Calbio (1 year ago)
Legit the best book! learn so much within the first chapter!

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